“ . . . I am convinced that the common good requires us to be both personally responsible and socially just. These are the two best big ideas of conservatism and liberalism . . . .”
“What are the best and biggest ideas from each side that we will all need to listen to?”
—Jim Wallis, Conservatives, Liberals, and the Fight for America’s Future
The magic word: listen. Can we do that in Washington? In budget committees? In congressional debates? In local politics? In family conflicts? Can we choose not to hate but to respect someone who has different ideas or a different take on the same ideas?
I can remember opinions of mine, over the years, that I concluded were false. But many more of my opinions were not wrong in themselves but were transformed into a better idea when I listened to others.
Listening is a magic wand, more powerful than any brandished by the students of Harry Potter’s Hogwarts. And we don’t have to be magicians to use it. We just need a mustard seed of humility.


Such was the case with the Eighteenth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution. Ratified in 1919, it prohibited intoxicating beverages. A backlash against it, however, led to its repeal in 1933. Too many people made “bathtub” gin or bought bootleg liquor (leading to an increase in organized crime) for the amendment to work.
My memory of his brief appearance in American history as the candidate against Richard Nixon mostly concerned his stunning defeat. McGovern took the electoral votes only of Massachusetts and the District of Columbia.
Richard Nixon became the president remembered for his resignation because of the Watergate scandal. McGovern, the loser, had spoken out against our military involvement in a small nation in Asia because he did not believe the country threatened us. Only later did so many others agree with him that Vietnam became a code word for failure.
The literature wasn’t an intelligent discussion of a point of view, but epithet hurling diatribes.
Their message is offensive to those who mourn loved ones. Courts in the U.S. have judged that the picketers have the right to protest even if their actions are scorned by the majority of Americans.
Best to mute the TV adds, too. Avoid contamination from, at best hyped up hyperbole and at worst outright lies.
Protests suggest an us-against-them confrontation that risks the protest turning into a riot or, at best, toward hardening of hearts on both sides.
I prefer writing: opinion pieces, articles, and blogs, for example, print or digital, to protesting. Even more, I like personal conversation between two or a few people. Talking together can be risky, too, of course. People may end up shouting at each other and walking away in anger.
The United States is one of the world’s oldest democratic republics, but democracy as practiced here is very much a work in progress. Its continuance is not guaranteed. Politics and power weave uneasily through our relatively new experiment in democracy.
Benjamin Franklin is said to have remarked at the signing of the Declaration of Independence: “Gentleman, we must all hang together or, assuredly, we shall hang separately.”